The doctor who gave us the bad report last night was back in today a much more humble bumble.  After the consult he came in and told things are not as bad as he portrayed last night.  We also talked to a patient advocate who helped us understand things better.  This cancer, though treatable is not considered by men to be curable.  Treatments will prolong her life and they don't know how long that will be.  It could be backed into remission.  

Thank you for the prayers.